Christ the King

The feast day of Christ the King is one that is commonly forgotten within Catholic circles; however, the feast seems as necessary today as it was when it was first established in 1925 by Pius XI. Christ’s Kingship over all of creation is declared by Christ himself (John 18). Likewise, Christ’s Kingship is affirmed in the Nicene Creed: “of whose Kingdom there shall be no end.” Now it is easy to spiritualize this Kingdom. One may think it is strictly a spiritual, other-worldly kingdom. However, this is only a part of what Catholics celebrate today.

The feast of Christ the King was established to encourage nations of the world to acknowledge Christ’s Kingship over all of creation and to pay him public honor and worship. If nations do not publicly acknowledge Christ as King, there will be no peace between nations (and this is quite prophetic of the great tragedies that would unfold in the twentieth century). It is important to note as well that Pope Pius XI is speaking of a public recognition of Christ’s Kingship—something not confined to the private sphere.

Today there is an on-going debate on how conservatives ought to proceed. Do we work within the framework of liberalism to achieve good ends or do we abandon liberalism altogether and try to restore an integralstate that harmonizes both throne and altar? What is clear from Pius XI’s encyclicalQuas Primasis that private goods cannot be isolated from the common good. The flourishing of a society mandates that there is a genuine common good (that includes the religious dimension of man) in order to facilitate personal, individual flourishing. This may strike modern American sensibilities as problematic. However, upon closer examination, it is important to realize that modern liberalism does not offer a value-free marketplace of ideas. The liberalism of today offers its own vision of the human good: material success, capital, and autonomy are inherent values. Liberalism has ceased to be a “negative” element (as T. S. Eliot put it); it is now a positive ideology that has its own pseudo-metaphysics.

Today we celebrate Christ’s Kingship, which no regime can ever change. Christians need to seriously consider the religious, liturgical nature of liberalism today. The historian Christopher Dawson has noted how man is a religious creature—nothing could be more foreign to human nature than atheism. Man naturally seeks religious expression, and if his faith is waning, he will quickly turn to politics to exult. Why else do elections seem to be life or death today? When politics becomes religious, there is no true hope. But alas, today is a day for feasting for Christians because we celebrate a hope that is only found in Christ’s Kingship: a King who rules with perfect equity, justice, and mercy.

 

 

Jesus, flow through us
Jesus, heal the bruises
Jesus, clean the music
Jesus, please use us
Jesus, please help
Jesus, please heal
Jesus, please forgive
Jesus, please reveal
Jesus, give us strength
Jesus, make us well
Jesus, help us live
Jesus, give us wealth
Jesus is our safe
Jesus is our rock
Jesus, give us grace
Jesus, keep us safe

~”Water,” by Kanye West

Consecration to Mary, Our Queen and Mother

For just as the Immaculata herself belongs to Jesus and to God, so too every soul through her and in her will belong to Jesus and to God in a much more perfect way than would have been possible without her. Such souls will come to love the Sacred Heart of Jesus much better than they have ever done up to now. Like Mary herself, they will come to penetrate into the very depths of love, to understand the cross, the Eucharist much better than before. Through her divine love will set the world on fire and will consume it; then will the “assumption of souls in love” take place. When, oh when will the divinization of the world in her and through her come about? (Personal notes, April 23, 1933) – St. Maximilian Kolbe

One year ago today, on the feast of the Queenship of the Blessed Virgin Mary, my husband and I consecrated ourselves to Mary, the Blessed Virgin Mother of God, Mother of the Church, and Queen of Heaven. We had a period of preparing for consecration—we read devotions influenced by St. Maximilian Kolbe’s Marian consecration, dedicated ourselves to praying the Rosary, and contemplated what it means for her to reign in our hearts. 

We have realized that as part of the Church, we enter into something so much larger than just a relationship with Jesus, as incredible as that is to begin with. St. Maximilian Kolbe points out that at baptism, we enter into the entire family of God:

The new child of God, who has become a member of the “divine family,” has God the Father for his father, has the divine Mother for his mother, has the divine Son for his brother. He acquires a divine inheritance by his loving union with the Persons who make up this “divine family.” Nor is this all; the divine Son chooses as his spouses the souls to whom he unites himself by this family bond; through him they become the mothers of many other souls. (Sketch, 1940)

In taking Mary as our Mother, to love her and be formed by her as her children, we become more like Jesus, who loves her more than anyone ever can, and who was formed under her loving care. And by giving ourselves to our Mother, we ask to be given a heart for her Son, for no human heart ever loved Jesus more than His Mother, Mary.

If Mary becomes Queen of our hearts, then Jesus is King, for they reign together. Mary is Queen where Jesus is King. In his book, Jesus and the Jewish Roots of Mary (which I highly recommend), Brant Pitre points out:

in contrast to most kingdoms, in ancient Israel, the ‘queen’ of the kingdom was not the king’s wife but his mother. Her royal title—‘queen mother’ (Hebrew gebirah)—is the feminine form of the word ‘master’ (Hebrew gebir). It can also be translated ‘great lady’ or ‘mistress’ (see 1 Kings 15:13; 2 Chronicles 15:16; Jeremiah 29:2). (74)

To his point, Pitre highlights King Solomon and the first queen mother, Bathsheba, in 1 Kings 2:19-20, in which it is written, “So Bathsheba went to King Solomon, to speak to him on behalf of Adonijah. And the king rose to meet her, and bowed down to her; then he sat on his throne and had a throne brought for the king’s mother; and she sat on his right.” The queen mother’s position is second only to the king. She reigns at the right hand of the king and acts as intercessor for the people to the king (as seen in 1 Kings 2:13-14, 17-18) (Pitre 78). Who are we, then, to disregard the mother of our Lord and King? If Jesus is our King, we must also have His Mother as our Queen.

The Virgin Mary is brought into the life of the Trinity in a way no other creature is. She is merely human, and yet, by virtue of being created to be the Mother of God the Son, she is preserved from all sin by the special grace of God and so is the most beautiful of all God’s creation. The Holy Spirit is united to her from the very moment of her conception so that she may never depart from God. Thus, when she freely offers her “yes” at the annunciation (Lk. 2:38), she becomes both the spouse of the Holy Spirit and the Mother of God.

Since she is united to the Holy Spirit in so intimate a way we cannot even imagine, her will, too, is intimately united to God’s will. So, we need not fear that she will lead us away from God. No, as God’s perfect creature, she only brings glory to God and points us to Him. As looking at the beauties of God’s creation causes us to sing His praises, even more does Mary cause us to marvel at the goodness and the beauty of God. She does nothing other than point us to Him and see His immense love for us. She does this in a way that is unique from anything or anyone else in His creation; she points us to God in a way that is particular to her as a unique and most perfect daughter of God. When we get to know someone and we come to love them, they show us something of God in a way we had not known before. So too, when we get to know our Mother, Mary, her particular, maternal love, and her unique personality bring us into deeper love of Christ in a way only she can bring out in us. 

I emphasize the importance of consecration to our Blessed Mother because of Mary’s unique role in the economy of salvation and her particular maternal love. She brings out in us love in a way only she can, and she does this by showing us her Son in a way only His mother can. Father Kolbe wrote:

In practice, we know that the souls that have given themselves completely and unrestrictedly to the Immaculata come to understand better the Lord Jesus and the mysteries of God. The Mother of God cannot lead us anywhere except to the Lord Jesus. (Conference, June 20, 1937)

To go back to where I began, when we come into the Church in baptism, we come into the family of God. God gives us His very Being, and He gives us His whole family, too: His Mother, and His brothers and sisters, the saints, who all strengthen us in the Spirit and conform us to His Son, each in their own ways. Even the greatest saints point to our Blessed Mother and know it is her maternal love which guided them to Love Himself.

Catholic Politics in the Modern World: Liberalism and Integralism

I. Introduction

The political and cultural discourse of today is marked by inflammatory rhetoric rooted in identity politics, defamation, and personal slandering. This modern discourse, especially in the United States, challenges John Courtney Murray’s ideal notion of a “civilized and civilizing” public argument through which a free society can flourish.[1]The political and cultural climate of today is essential for any Catholic to consider, as it has immediate implications on the Church’s wellbeing in the West. Today, there is a kind ofressourcementamong Catholics, but this ressourcement is not the same as the one that preceded the Second Vatican Council.[2]Indeed, it is a return to the pre-conciliar, Tridentine Church. For some Catholics, the pre-conciliar Church and her relation to politics can be an example for how the modern Church should approach politics today. This pre-conciliar model could be surmised by a simple proposition: “where possible, Catholicism should be confessed not only by private individuals but by the state, which should legally privilege and protect it as the true religion.”[3]However, this view is not necessarily mainstream, as many argue that the Second Vatican Council altered this pre-conciliar model and does not see it as befitting for the modern era.[4]For convenience, those who prefer the pre-conciliar model will be referred to as “integralists” while those who desire the post-conciliar approach will be referred to as “liberals” (in the classical sense).

An article published in First Things entitled “Against David French-ism” (May 2019) encapsulates the tension between the integralists and liberals. In the article, the Catholic journalist Sohrab Ahmari criticizes the classical liberal perspective of David French.[5]And although David French is not a Catholic himself, his views represent the views of many Catholic intellectuals. Ahmari’s primary attack on David French is his civil, “nice” approach to politics which, according to Ahmari, is meaningless in today’s political climate.[6]Those who despise Christian morality do not play by the traditional rules of civic discourse; instead, their approach to discourse is nothing but ad hominem and public manipulation.[7]Ahmari says French’s approach does not suffice to combat those who are uncivil. Ahmari suggests instead that the only way “to fight the culture war” is with “the aim of defeating the enemy and enjoying the spoils in the form of a public square re-ordered to the common good and ultimately the Highest Good.”[8]To the modern ear, this re-ordering of the public square comes across as fascist and authoritarian. But did Ahmari have a point? If public disagreement always descends into chaos, how can peace and justice be preserved? The culture must be ordered toward the highest good, otherwise man’s lower instincts become normative and corrupt civilization. This is indeed a difficult problem and one that penetrates to the very heart of Catholic political thought.

There is no doubt that the liberal ideals that helped found the modern Western world are being challenged. Furthermore, it is these liberal ideals that were largely endorsed by Vatican II and the post-conciliar Church. The challenges to democracy and liberalism today place tremendous pressure on the Church, and it demands returning to the original Vatican II documents to see with what resources the Church has provided the world to structure and form a just, equitable society. Today’s political climate demands a creative response from Catholics. The teaching of the Council Fathers, along with the popes, furnish a proper response to modern political culture. The response incorporates both integralism and liberalism: it holds true to the inherent dignity of the human person (liberalism), while also preserving the criticism of previous popes against liberalism (integralism). What brings liberalism and integralism together is the concept of integral human development. This development begins with the culture, and it ends in a politics ordered toward the common good. This proposition can be framed as “liberalismfor the sake of integralism.” To demonstrate this as a realistic, Catholic proposition, it is necessary to examine the pre-conciliar, nineteenth century Church (the integralist position), the conciliar Church (the liberal position), and how these two positions synthesize today.

II: The Integralist Position: The Church of the Nineteenth Century

The Roman papacy, especially after the Protestant Reformation, depended on pious, loyal monarchs throughout Europe to cultivate political conditions that would strengthen the Catholic Church.[9]But with the advent of the French Revolution, “the Church faced a wholly new social situation.”[10]The “former system of state churches slowly gave way to secular democracies that were at best indifferent and at worst hostile to religion.”[11]France lost so much of its political order that was rooted in the Catholic Church due to the Revolution, which meant the Church lost so much of its authority over secular affairs. The anti-clericalism that plagued France as a result of the Revolution caused the Church to be skeptical of any new political development that smelled of the Enlightenment philosophy that inspired the Revolution, and this attitude determined the course of the Catholic Church throughout the nineteenth century and into the twentieth century.[12]

To better understand why the Church was so worried about the rise of liberalism, it is necessary to define what exactly Enlightenment-inspired liberalism is. A great place to look is the father of modern liberalism: Jean-Jacques Rousseau.[13]Rousseau says, “Man is born free, and is everywhere in chains.”[14]What are these chains? They are everything: Church, morality, and even family.[15]Society itself is founded upon a free choice of individuals.[16]“Freedom,” in this sense, is essentially the freedom of choice in all things—it is freedom from being coerced. Now consider how Leo XIII defines freedom in his encyclical, Libertas Praestantissimum(1888). Leo XIII argues for freedom as it relates to the practice of virtue. Man’s intellect and will are what make him a free creature (man is the master of his own actions) and allow him to act virtuously.[17]Consequently, to sin or err is not freedom, but bondage, since “he [who sins] acts in opposition to reason, is moved by another, and is the victim of foreign misapprehensions.”[18]This is why human law ought to align herself with Magisterial teaching so that it may curb those things that impinge on the freedom of virtue, such as public proclamation of erroneous teaching or religion.[19]This approach to liberty is not freedom from(like Rousseau), but freedom forvirtue. A man who is vicious is not free because he cannot act according to reason; his base passions and desires are like chains that command him. If public law permitted its citizens to freely practice vice, it would no longer have free citizens, but enslaved ones. Therefore, many nineteenth century popes believed civic laws that prohibited heresy would be expedient for society if it truly wished to be free and virtuous.[20]

Leo XIII’s understanding of freedom reflects the thought of many other
nineteenth century popes, which is why the Church desired earthly rulers who are Catholic and loyal to the papacy, as this would create a culture where Catholicism could thrive and more souls be saved. Furthermore, in the temporal order, the Church was the sole guarantor of social peace and stability. This view is seen well in other pontificates, such as Popes Gregory XVI (Miari Vos), Pius XI (Quanta Cura, Syllabus of Errors), and Pius X (Pascendi Dominici Gregis).The idea that the Catholic Church, and more specifically the papacy, must be a direct influence over temporal, political affairs is articulated well by Joseph de Maistre, a lay Catholic who lived through the French Revolution and was one of its most vocal critics.[21]He says:

Wherever there prevails any other religion than the one Catholic faith, slavery maintains its ground; and wherever this religion falls into decay, the nation becomes, exactly in proportion, less susceptible of liberty in general.[22]

This view from Joseph de Maistre surmises well the Church’s own fear with the rise of liberalism and revolutions. True liberty, according to the Catholic Church, is obedience to God’s law, not license to do whatever one pleases.[23]Joseph de Maistre is a great figurehead for integralism, as he recognizes that nations that do not submit to the papacy cannot expect true justice or liberty.

III: Catholic Thought in Transition

Not all pre-conciliar popes were radically opposed to liberalism. Renewed political thought within the Catholic Church came through the pontificate of Leo XIII. Leo XIII may appear to be an odd figure, since he was “as opposed to Liberalism in all its forms as were his predecessors.”[24]Nevertheless, “he made decisions that mitigated some of their more extreme positions.”[25]For example, Leo teaches in Libertas Praetantissimum (1888)that so long as it does not harm the common good, the Church “does not forbid public authority to tolerate what is at variance with truth and justice, for the sake of avoiding some greater evil.”[26]So whereas prior pontificates mostly taught in absolute terms that tolerance of evil is prohibited because it would corrupt public morals,[27]Leo changes this perspective to see that tolerance of evil in society may be expedient for the maintenance of peace. The Church, Leo insists, must enjoy the exercise of her own liberty by “persuasion, exhortation and entreaty” so she may “fulfill the duty assigned to her by God.”[28]Leo XIII is offers a new strategy for politics. Instead of relying on a temporal authority (such as a king) to bring about a Catholic culture and politics, Leo says the Church needs to be the voice of reason and conscience to the nations of the world, especially those that prefer a liberal form of government. It is through exhortation and persuasion that the Church informs politics; it is not through the sword, coercion, or social privilege. While the Church was certainly not in full endorsement of liberalism, there is no doubt that Leo XIII blazed an important trail (especially when his other encyclical, Rerum Novarum, is considered).[29]

IV: The Liberal Position: Vatican II and the Post-Conciliar Church

The two documents from Vatican II that definitively shifted the Church’s approach to politics are Dignitatis Humanae and Gaudium et Spes. Together, these documents articulate a Catholic form of liberalism; hence, they can rightly represent the “liberal” perspective, as opposed to the integralist perspective. For example, Dignitatis Humanae highlights how “Contemporary man is becoming increasingly conscious of the dignity of the human person.”[30]Acknowledging this new awareness, the Council Fathers affirm that the “human person has a right to religious freedom” which means they “should be immune from coercion.”[31]No one can be forced into religion, even Catholicism. Indeed, “Truth can impose itself on the mind of man only in virtue of its own truth, which wins over the mind with both gentleness and power.”[32]It is only “by personal assent that men must adhere to the truth they have discovered” and man cannot “act contrary to his conscience.”[33]All of these points are meant to accommodate a liberal, democratic culture—a culture that espouses freedom from as opposed to freedom for virtue. The Council Fathers recognize that true religious piety does not come through the external form of a Catholic state; true faith only comes through personal assent and obedience to conscience. So although individual consciences can be evil and use freedom for bad ends, the Church must protect individuals from coercive action on behalf of the state (freedom from), so long as the inaction of the state does not compromise the common good.[34]The change in the political paradigm from the nineteenth century cannot be clearer. Rather than aspiring for a Catholic king loyal to the papacy or civic laws that are in perfect concord with God’s law, the Council demonstrates how liberal principles such as religious liberty and freedom of conscience are fundamentally Christian, as they respect the dignity of the individual.

This new political paradigm is continued by the Council Fathers in Gaudium et Spes. For example, the Fathers speak of how “Through loyalty to conscience Christians are joined to other men in the search for truth and for the right solution to so many moral problems.”[35]The pluralism of modern society means that Christians must join in sincere dialogue with non-Christians and cultivate a spirit of civic discourse that pursues moral truth for the sake of the good ordering of society. This public discourse is possible because not everyone has to be a Catholic in order to live a civil life; non-Catholics can follow the dictates of their conscience and the natural law.[36]The Council Fathers affirm that freedom is the necessary prerequisite for cultivating a just society: it is “only in freedom that man can turn himself toward what is good.”[37]Therefore, it is only in an environment where free inquiry is protected that a dialogical process can occur with all men, and if Catholics believe the truth will always be God’s truth, they have nothing to fear from political dialogue with non-Catholics. All of these principles are based upon the Council’s teaching that there is a real autonomy in temporal affairs, because by “the very nature of creation, material being is endowed with its own stability, truth and excellence, its own order and laws.”[38]Human reason, unassisted by revelation, can order society prudently and make good laws. Therefore, one need not have a “Catholic state” to have just laws. The Church has an impact on political society not by “external power exercised” but through “effective living of faith and love.”[39]And this approach is what in fact makes the Church truly “universal”—“it is not committed to any one culture or to any political, economic or political system.”[40]

It would seem that the Church has entirely changed its approach to politics after Vatican II. Although the embrace of liberalism is truly a change in paradigm, it does not necessarily mean that all the teaching that preceded it is meaningless. Indeed, the Council fathers confess in Dignitatis Humanae that the Church “draws forth new things that are always in harmony with the old.”[41]Furthermore, they add that the new teaching “leaves intact the traditional Catholic teaching on the moral duty of individuals and societies towards the true religion and the one Church of Christ.”[42]But how exactly does this new teaching combine with the old in modern politics?

V: Catholic Politics Today and the Concept of the Integral

Some years have passed since Vatican II, and the world today is in a very new political climate. Liberalism—which the Council Fathers were quite optimistic about—appears to be failing in the public square. Unjust laws are made that are an offense to true human dignity. Religion is almost entirely excluded from the public square. Despite these hardships, the popes following Vatican II used the principles laid out in the Council to address modern political concerns, especially through the Catholic social thought of their encyclicals. One such topic that offers an excellent response to problems within liberalism is the concept of the “integral.” In Gaudium et Spes, the Council Fathers call for a human culture that will “develop the whole human person harmoniously and integrally.”[43]This integral development of the human person takes into account that man is not only a man of temporal concerns, but also that his ultimate meaning is rooted in his supernatural calling to beatitude. Therefore, a political order must be in place that facilitates the realization of man’s true calling.

The pontificates following Vatican II have elaborated on the concept of the integral. For example, Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI in his Caritas in Veritate (2009) calls for integral human development in love and truth.[44]This integral development applies to “both the natural plane and the supernatural plane,”[45]and when the supernatural is neglected, there exists a “dehumanized form of development.”[46]Therefore, it is incumbent upon all who are interested in authentic development to integrate the religious dimension of man into the social order. This view is also echoed by Pope Francis in Laudato Si’ (2015). In his encyclical, Francis speaks of “integral ecology,” which means that social life is comprised of various “ecologies” that are interrelated—such as the environment, economy, and culture.[47]Furthermore, these ecologies are closely related to the “common good,” which allows “social groups and their individual members” to find fulfillment.[48]Francis continues to say that “society as a whole, and the state in particular, are obliged to defend and promote the common good.”[49]Thus a key question arises that gets at the very heart of the political dilemma today: how exactly does the state promote the common good in a way that does not impinge upon an individual’s freedom to choose his or her “own good” according to the dictates of his or her own conscience? If personal freedom is the “common good,” then all that is left is will power and anarchy. If the state asserts a definitive good that is evil, then tyranny is the result. These are the tensions in a modern democratic context.

Benedict XVI suggests that the state does in fact have a concern for truth (reflected in its laws) which promotes the common good.[50]This does not mean the state must be a confessional Catholic state; it means, at the very least, that the state protects “ethical truth” which is “indispensable to democracy.”[51]“Freedom requires contents,” and without positive prescriptions towards the good (i.e., good laws), individual freedom “dissolves into thin air.”[52]The problem today is that the state does not furnish a prescription of what is good—what functions as “truth” and “goodness” in modern democracy is the “decision of the majority.”[53]A liberal society that exults personal freedom as the ultimate end of man is a sick society (the worry of the pre-conciliar Church). A state that tyrannically imposes religious obligations on people is a violation of an individual’s conscience (the worry of the post-conciliar Church).

What Vatican II offers politics is liberalism for the sake of integralism by articulating the idea of integral human development. True religious faith is a matter of personal conscience—it cannot be imposed by the state. If Catholics desire a state that allows Catholicism and her social principles to flourish, then Catholics need to admonish, instruct, and evangelize the public square. Furthermore, Catholics need to be engaged in public life as politicians, lawyers, and judges to promote Catholic social teaching for the sake of the common good. It is in this way that Catholicism is integrated into modern political life. Catholics ought to use the mechanisms and institutions of liberalism to rise to positions of political power and use that power to conform laws to Catholic teaching in so far as the laws harmonize with natural law, and are therefore acceptable to everyone in a pluralistic society. If the culture becomes Catholic, politics will become Catholic. Instead of the top-down model of the Tridentine Church (i.e., Catholic confessional state led by a monarch), Catholics must work from the bottom-up to convert the culture (liberalism) and rise to political influence (integralism). Returning to the abovementioned conflict between Ahmari and French, it is clear that they are both right in many ways. Catholics and religious conservatives need to work within a liberal framework (French’s position), and it is by working within the liberal framework that Catholics can order the public square according to the “Highest Good” (Ahmari’s position). It is impossible to return to the pre-conciliar model of Church politics. Vatican II offers the key to understanding how traditional Church teaching on politics can adapt to the modern world by safeguarding the role of religion and virtue for integral human development, while also respecting the inherent dignity of the individual by appealing to the conscience with truth instead of coercion.

Endnotes:


[1]John Courtney Murray, S.J.,We Hold The Truths: Catholic Reflections on the American Proposition(New York: Rowman and Littlefield Publishers, Inc., 2005), 27.

[2]Robert Royal, A Deeper Vision: The Catholic Intellectual Tradition in the Twentieth Century(San Francisco: Ignatius Press, 2015), 118.

[3]Thomas Pink, “In Defense of Catholic Integralism,” Public Discourse, August 12, 2018, accessed July 21, 2019, https://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2018/08/39362/.

[4]Robert T. Miller, “Integralism and Catholic Doctrine,” Public Discourse, July 15, 2018, accessed July 21, 2019, https://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2018/07/22105/.

[5]Sohrab Ahmari, “Against David French-ism,” First Things, May 29, 2019,accessed Jul 21 2019, https://www.firstthings.com/web-exclusives/2019/05/against-david-french-ism.

[6]Ibid.

[7]Ibid.

[8]Ibid.

[9]Christopher Dawson, The Dividing of Christendom (San Francisco: Ignatius Press, 2009), 208.

[10]Robert Royal, A Deeper Vision,21.

[11]Ibid.

[12]Timothy W. O’Malley, What Happened at Vatican II(Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 2008), 54.

[13]Christopher Dawson, “Civilization and Morals,” in Dynamics in World History (Wilmington: ISI Books, 2013), 49.

[14]Jean-Jacques Rousseau, “The Social Contract or Principals of Political Right,” in The Essential Rousseau(New York: Meridian Books, 1975), 8.

[15]Ibid., 9.

[16]Ibid.

[17]Pope Leo XIII, “Libertas Praetantissimum,” trans. Paulist Press, in The Popes Against Modern Errors (Charlotte: TAN books, 1999), 84.

[18]Ibid., 85.

[19]Ibid., 89.

[20]Pope Leo XIII, “Diuturnum Illud,” in The Popes Against Modern Errors, trans. Paulist Press, 41.

[21]Thomas Garret Isham, Contra Mundum: Joseph de Maistre and the Birth of Tradition(Kettering: Angelico Press, 2017), 61.

[22]Joseph de Maistre, The Pope: Considered in His Relations With the Church, Temporal Sovereignties, Seperated Churches, and the Cause of Civilization(London: Forgotten Books, 2018), 241.

[23]Pope Leo XIII, “Libertas Praestantissimum,” in The Popes Against Modern Errors, 89.

[24]Timothy O’Malley, What Happened at Vatican II, 62.

[25]Ibid.

[26]Pope Leo XIII, “Libertas Paretantissimum,” in The Popes Against Modern Errors, 103.

[27]Pope Pius IX, “Quanta Cura,” in The Popes Against Modern Errors, 17.

[28]Pope Leo XIII, “Libertas Praetantissimum,” in The Popes Against Modern Errors, 104.

[29]Timothy O’Malley, What Happened at Vatican II, 63.

[30]“Dignitatis Humanae,” in Vatican Council II:The Conciliar and Postconciliar Documents, new revised edition, ed. Austin Flannery, OP, trans. Laurence Ryan (Collegeville: Liturgical Press, 2014), 799.

[31]Ibid., 800.

[32]Ibid.

[33]Ibid., 801.

[34]Ibid., 805.

[35]“Gaudium et Spes,” in Vatican Council II, trans. Ambrose McNicholl, OP, 916.

[36]“Nostra Aetate,” in Vatican Council II, trans. Father Killian, OCSO., 739.

[37]“Gaudium et Spes,” in Vatican Council II, 917.

[38]Ibid., 935.

[39]Ibid., 942.

[40]Ibid.

[41]“Dignitatis Humanae,” in Vatican II, 799.

[42]Ibid., 800.

[43]Ibid., 960.

[44]Benedict XVI, “Caritas in Veritate,” in Catholic Social Thought: Encyclicals and Documents from Pope Leo XIII to Pope Francis, ed. David J. O’Brien and Thomas A. Shannon, 3rd ed. (Maryknoll: Orbis Books, 2016), 534.

[45]Ibid., 538.

[46]Ibid., 534.

[47]Pope Francis, “Laudato Si’,” in Catholic Social Thought, 635.

[48]Ibid., 640.

[49]Ibid., 641.

[50]Benedict XVI, “Truth, Values, Power,” in Faith and Politics, trans. Michael J. Miller (San Francisco: Ignatius Press, 2018), 134.

[51]Ibid.

[52]Ibid., 132.

[53]Ibid., 135.


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On Millenials and Restless Hearts

Nor will they gain freedom of mind unless they submit themselves with their whole heart for God’s sake. Run here or there, thou wilt find no rest, but in an humble subjection under the government of a superior. The imagination and changing of places have deceived many. – St. Thomas à Kempis, Imitation of Christ (I. 9)

An incredibly fascinating and insightful piece was published recently on Huffington Post titled, “Behold, the Millenial Nuns,” by Eve Fairbanks. It was one of their top posts after it was published, and I am not surprised. I still find myself thinking about it, as Fairbanks delved into the felt emptiness of this particular time in the modern world, and the awakening of many in the desire for wholeness—something some millennials are realizing demands holiness.

I never had the chance to discern religious life, since my husband and I were already married by the time we became Catholic, but I can see in our own lives how a similar mentality fueled our fervent desire for and pursuit of Truth—not to know Truth intellectually only, but to know what our response to it needed to be. We wanted to know what the Truth demanded of us, no matter how difficult it could be. It brought us to see the hard demands of family life, and at the same time desire it with all our hearts. Our longing for Truth brought us into the Catholic Church, desiring the Church in all its fullness—its teaching and doctrine, its beauty, and even its rules. We craved the Church that would dare to tell us what is true and what is false, what is wrong and what is right. We craved a liturgy that is other-worldly, even if it is intimidating at first or if, in the beginning, we do not know what everything means. We yearned for the Church that challenges every person, “Become holy. Become a saint.”

Though some think of the Church and say, “it’s too hard or unrealistic,” many come, see, and inquire, and find its people to be too ambiguous and unclear in the Church’s teaching, or lazy and messy in the liturgy of the mass. If anyone is ever turned away, it should not be because the Church is afraid to be what it is called to be and really is. Even with that said, though, hearts are turned to God; He calls people to Himself, particularly in the sacrament of the Eucharist present in every mass. Though the devil in the world tries desperately to push God out of it, people are still searching for God, and some even more so out of the abyss of meaning they find around themselves. No matter what happens in the world, God cannot be shunned from the mass, where He is truly present. People find Him there again and again, and they must respond, either with a wholehearted “yes,” to Him, or it will be a response that is essentially a “no,” for it leaves the door open for one’s own way rather than God’s; it leaves the door open for pride and disobedience. And that is one thing Fairbanks articulated in her article—that obedience can be the most difficult thing for those entering religious life. People do not want to give away their freedom, and yet it is this very thing that leads to freedom. So in this modern world in which all things, all ways of life, all opportunities, are supposedly available for the taking, we find ourselves crippled, paralyzed, and realize this is not where freedom is found. Freedom must lie in something else, or rather, in someone else.

Some people could interpret that rise in young people entering religious life or entering the Catholic Church as just a fad, that it is only a reaction to the modern world and a way to cope with it. Instead, I would like to posit that when everything is pulled out from underneath us, and we find nothing to stand on, we are forced to look at what really matters, what is really true, and what that means for how we live our lives. It is not that we found life wanting and so created something to fill our desires. Rather, we found something old that transcends our time and actually is the truth we desire. We did not create it. We simply discovered that this is what we long for. We did not create a Being or an institution according to our passions. Rather, we found the very One for whom we were created and the very Gift which He planted on earth for us to enter into. Truly, we found God.

Windows into Heaven

The Eastern Church in the 8th century experienced the “iconoclastic controversy.” The main controversy was over the veneration of icons (holy images of Jesus, Mary, the Saints &c.). Those who thought icons ought not be used destroyed icons (hence the name “icon-smasher”). Saint John of Damascus responds to this controversy in On the Divine Images. He says, “I am emboldened to depict the invisible God, not as invisible, but as he became visible for our sake, by participation in flesh and blood. I do not depict the invisible divinity, but I depict God made visible in the flesh” (I.4). We do not have to be wary of images of God, for God is our Savior, Jesus Christ. When we see an image of Jesus, we simply see God as a man, as he really is. Thus, it is through Jesus who is the image of the invisible God (Col. 1:15) that icons become a testament to the truth about our Savior.

Christ is the Image of God, so in Him, we see the Image of the Creator. St. John of Damascus states, “now that God has been seen in the flesh and has associated with human kind, I depict what I have seen of God. I do not venerate matter, I venerate the fashioner of matter, who became matter for my sake and accepted to dwell in matter and through matter worked my salvation” (I.16). Through icons, we see reality—the reality that God is with us in the flesh. As it is written in Colossians, “For in him the fulness of God was pleased to dwell, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross” (Col. 1:19-20 RSV-CE). God became incarnate and suffered as a human being so we may be united to him through participation in His Divine life. To reject icons is to reject that God became true man and thus can be depicted in an image.

A further defense that our Lord became matter—and thus can be seen in an icon—is that we receive Him in the Eucharist. As St. John of Damascus rightly points out, “is not the body and blood of my Lord matter?” (I.16). We do not only see that God came to us in the flesh through icons; God comes to us substantially in the Eucharist through which we experience His physical presence in the matter through which we receive our salvation. It is in this union with God that we are made truly human. Christ as the Image of the living God is the same Christ who restores the distorted Image of God in fallen humanity.

For several years now, icons have been a beautiful reminder to me that God is a human being, that the Son took on flesh and blood to be with me, to be united to me, for me to be brought into His life. While He is the Image of God the Father, He is also the Image of the Human Being; he is the new Adam, “the first-born of all creation” (Col. 1:15). In Christ, I see my humanity restored.

Icons are beautiful pieces of art that remind me that Jesus walked the earth and performed miracles and showed mercy and forgiveness to so many. They are reminders of salvation history and of the divine dwelling with humankind. But it is not until fairly recently that I have realized the great help that icons offer the faithful in prayer to focus our attention on the person of Christ, and specifically, to realize His real, human relationship with each of us.

There is something about gazing on the face of Christ in an icon that truly brings me close to Him. St. John of Damascus says, “For what the word of a story makes present through hearing, the very same is shown silently in a picture through imitation” (III.47). I cannot help but remember that Jesus is true man and true God, and someday, I will gaze on His face. Icons have been called windows into heaven, and they truly are. Looking into the eyes of Christ in an icon is a window into the mystery of what it means to look into the eyes of God. I know He sees me. And I know He bids me to see Him face to face. Looking on Him, I see my Hope, my Love, my Life. I am overwhelmed both by His perfect holiness and the perfect love of He who sees all things, of He who sees me.

As human beings, we are physical creatures. Physical objects mean something to us, as they often symbolize for us something greater or remind us of someone we love. As St. John of Damascus writes, “We therefore venerate the images, not by offering veneration to matter, but through them to those who are depicted in them” (III. 41). As physical manifestations of our love, we hug and we kiss one another. Because God is a human being in Jesus Christ, we can hang pictures of Him in our home. We can kneel before an icon of Jesus and talk to Him, even kiss the icon, as we would talk to a loved one we long to see and to hold. We are human beings, and God is, too. Let us gaze on the Image of God, who is also the Image of Man, and rest in the gaze of our Lord and our Lover.

Houses of God

One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to inquire in his temple. Psalm 26 [27]: 4

Between the fire at Notre Dame, Holy Week, and Easter, I have been reflecting on the beauty and importance of churches as they house the perfect, broken, and glorious Body and Blood of Jesus. Holy Week is marked with a lot of time in church, and I was blessed to be able to go to mass earlier in the week along with the services accompanying Maundy Thursday (and Eucharistic adoration late that night), Good Friday, Saturday’s Easter Vigil, and Sunday’s Easter mass. I was able to pray in front of an altar where Jesus’ Body in the Blessed Sacrament was held; I gazed on the Stations of the Cross all around the walls of the church, and I saw Jesus going to the cross. When Jesus enters churches as He does in the Sacrament of the Holy Eucharist, these places are made sacred. Churches are holy places because the incarnate Son of God who suffered, died, and lives for us still offers Himself up for us in the Eucharist in these very churches–all so we may enjoy union with Him even now on earth.

As places that are set apart for God, churches reflect the beauty of God dwelling with His creatures on earth. Churches are created to point us to God. They are designed that we would recognize His presence in the world among us and see that we ought to humble ourselves before Him in awe. Beauty in churches points us to God and bring us to ponder His mysteries and adore Him, which we are able to do before Him in Eucharistic adoration.

Dismissing churches as only buildings denies that the material world is important. This kind of thinking implicitly promotes the idea that our faith is purely spiritual and has no meaning in the physical world, which could not be any farther from the truth (such thinking has its roots in the ancient heresy of Gnosticism). God became man in the flesh, not as an illusion and not only spiritually, but He really, truly became human. Jesus says, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in you; he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day” (Jn. 6:53-54). We are not to take this saying as a nice metaphor, but as something He really meant us to do so we may have true and everlasting life. Christ actually suffered and died, and He really rose from the dead in His glorified body, showing that we, too, through life in Him, will be raised in the same way. Christ’s glorified body reveals the glory of all of material creation. 

When Notre Dame was burning, a priest, Father Jean-Marc Fournier, went into the fire to save the Blessed Sacrament and Jesus’ Crown of Thorns inside the church. He went back not for sentimental value, but because of their physical importance; there was something physically worth saving from the fire. Churches are temples of God, which mean there is something holy within them. The beauty is that the very One who is so Holy does not remain hidden from us, but reveals Himself to us. We get to adore Him, be present among Him, and even come humbly before him that we may receive God into our own bodies, not just spiritually, but physically, for our lives depend on this Food from Heaven. 

St. Maximilian Kolbe’s Response to Modernity

I was prompted to write this post because of something my Catholic seminarian friend, Andrew Lane, shared on Facebook. His post was this:

Today Love is being killed. We want to blame hate, because it’s repulsive. But I think there are few who are truly hateful. Love is not just being choked by hate.

It is being smothered by indifference. Indifference is the ugliness that often goes unseen. It doesn’t attract attention, but it’s everywhere. It’s in you and it’s in me. It has many faces: negligence, selfishness, infidelity to God and man. It, not hate, corrodes the love between spouses. It is indifference that destroys families. It turns faith into a vague belief accepted shallowly, a myth clung to in immaturity with no bearing on our lives.

Indifference, not hate, is the opposite of love.

When you look into your own soul, don’t let yourself just say, “I’m fine. I haven’t killed anybody.” Ask God to show you where indifference resides in your heart, and ask Him to cast it out!

Hell is a real place. However, it is not just the home of the hateful, but of the indifferent. Because, when God called them to love, they were too lost in themselves to care.

Although our friendship is very young, I believe his post is indicative of a soul formed in the spirituality of St. Maximilian Kolbe—a Polish Catholic priest (and Franciscan Conventual) during WWII who was a “Martyr of Charity” in Auschwitz when he voluntarily chose to be put to death in the place of another prisoner. Kolbe devoted his life to defend the Catholic faith and inspire fervent love for Christ through the Immaculate Mother.

Kolbe’s war was against, among other things, indifference. While Kolbe was studying in Rome, Italy, he witnessed fierce demonstrations conducted by the Freemasons. They shouted things like “Satan will reign from Vatican Hill. The Supreme Pontiff will be his servant” and waved a flag of St. Michael the Archangel being trampled by Lucifer. The Freemasons were calculating and organized. They knew they could not destroy Catholicism by reason, but by the corruption of morals. Freemasons propagated that “species of art and literature that most easily corrupts chastity and destroys a sense of morality, so that all parts of human society might be influenced by this sordid propaganda” (Kolbe) As a consequence, “Wise and strong men are weakened, families torn apart, hearts corrupted and an insane bitterness grows up” (Kolbe). How can men like those at the Freemason rallies act “according to a determined plan, way, and purpose” toward such a wicked end, and yet Christians remain so lukewarm? This was Kolbe’s chief concern—and it is as relevant today as it was then.

What Kolbe saw in the Freemasons is even more ubiquitous today. There are men who seek the ruin of souls through mass media, consumerism, and endless other distractions. These things constantly stir the soul to comport itself to earthly, temporal things. As St. Augustine says, “You seek happiness of life in the land of death, and it is not there” (Confessions IV.12). Modern habits nourished by the spirit of liberalism and personal autonomy have created a new form of bondage. Our lives are perpetually unsettled and restless. Cardinal Sarah notes in The Power of Silence how “Without noise, man is ferverish, lost. Noise gives him security, like a drug on which he has become dependent… But this noise is a dangerous, deceptive medicine, diabolic lie that helps man avoid confronting himself in his interior emptiness. The awakening will necessarily be brutal.” As my friend Andrew said above: “look into your own soul,” and you will find with the help of God the affections that have been paralyzed by modernity.

When Kolbe saw that evil men could scheme in such deliberate, organized ways, he responded by founding the Militia Immaculatae (the Knights of Mary). The goal was straightforward: “To lead all men and every individual through Mary to the most Sacred Heart of Jesus.” The “Immaculata must become queen of each and every soul” he said. But why?

Out of the superabundant grace of God, since He has so deigned that all earthly children should have a mother, He also gave His children a spiritual mother, His own Mother. The special privilege Mary enjoys is best seen in her being the Mediatrix of all Graces. All graces which flow from God pass through her Immaculate hands before they are distributed throughout the world. Such a special role in the economy of grace requires the supernatural work of God in the life of Mary. While remaining a creature, the Immaculate was so intimately united to the Holy Spirit from the time of her conception that she is sometimes called the “Spouse of the Holy Spirit.” With Mary’s fiat, she accepts her role in salvation history. She has a will perfectly aligned with that of the Father. God gave Mary “such a heart that she could not envision any pain that would not move her to be concerned for the salvation and sanctification of every human being.” When she distributes the graces received from God, she distributes them according to a love that is enflamed by God.

Mary, in her perfect humility, leads people to the Sacred Heart of her Son Jesus Christ. She is the ladder by which all are led to Christ, even if they do not recognize or acknowledge her role. Kolbe rightly acknowledged her role, and thought she would play an essential role in helping the Church deal with modern ails.

Kolbe had a grand vision for the Militia Immaculatae which is still active today. In his native Poland, Kolbe established a monastery-city called “The City of the Immaculate,” which is where Franciscan friars worked on their publication, “The Knight of the Immaculate.” It is believed to have been the largest Catholic publishing center in the world at the time. The city is a perfect example of what Kolbe thought the MI could achieve by the grace of God. He envisioned whole cities being founded for the cause: cities that had their own infrastructure, laborers, educators, laypeople, and religious. He wanted a small cultural cell that was consecrated to Our Lady and devoted to bringing Catholic truth to the lost souls of the world. The primary way of doing this was through the “Miraculous Medal”—what he called the “silver bullet” against evil.

Kolbe was anything but indifferent, even though he continually struggled with setbacks. He struggled with the financial support needed to build the City of the Immaculate and with tuberculous since studying in Rome. Nothing held him back from the mission. And where did all of this lead him? To Auschwitz. Because the Knight of the Immaculate published material condemning Nazism, he and his fellow friars became a public enemy to the Nazis. He died in the Auschwitz camp (August 14, 1941) on the eve of the Feast of the Assumption of Mary. He was starved for a week, and then injected with acid, taking the place of another prisoner who begged not to be killed. It was indeed a heroic act of charity, a charity that was cultivated in the school of Mary.

Kolbe’s life sheds light on many things, but there is one of particular relevance today: indifference kills the soul. Zeal and desire for the will of God may very likely kill the body, but it will save the soul. To be so enthused for God is to put yourself at enmity with Satan and the world. You could lose everything—especially the esteem and praise of men. But in exchange, all will be gained through Christ. Mary, our Immaculate Mother, is here to help our pilgrimage on earth. Trust in her maternal care, and you will never stray. Offer yourself up to her as her property, and she will perfect your good works. Do the will of God, and she will bring you to the Sacred Heart of her Son.

St. Maximilian Kolbe, pray for us!

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us!


Here is a video on St. Maximilian Kolbe’s life and the founding of the Militia Immaculatae.

Here are some resources from the website of the Militia of the Immaculata:

How to become a member of the Militia

The prayer of Total Consecration to Mary in the form of St. Maximillian Kolbe  

What is Total Consecration?

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His Friends are Ours, Too

Before I was confirmed in the Catholic Church, I never anticipated how comforting I would find the intercession of the saints. For me at the time, it was nice to know that the saints do pray for us and intercede on behalf of the Church. But when times become trying and you need a lot of trust in God, the saints can become integral in the peace that one knows in the midst of the craziness. My husband and I are grateful to have families and church family who help us and offer us advice. When we do not know what to do or get stuck in some situation, we all naturally turn to people we can trust. It is this way with God, and it can be this way with the saints in heaven, too. 

There are many decisions my husband and I have had to make recently, and more decisions to be made in the future, along with some unexpected things that have come up in the midst of this discerning. Through all of this, it is easy to become overwhelmed and anxious. Often, this is my response. But by the grace of God, He has granted me peace and help to not worry quite so much (though I know I still have a long way to go). Again and again, my husband and I have been in situations not knowing what will happen, but always, God has taken care of us and provided us with what we need, and I am confident He will do it again and is doing it this very moment. And part of the way He provides us with what we need is through the intercession of the saints.

We are people created for community. As such, He gave us the Church. He gave us the church on earth—the church militant—and the church in heaven—the church triumphant. Both are integral to strengthening our faith on earth, increasing our hope, and enflaming our love. We are not meant to live in isolation. We are meant to live in community with the Church in our time and the Church throughout time, and that includes the saints in heaven. In his memoir, An Immovable Feast, Tyler Blanski writes of coming to understand the communion of saints:

Jesus loves the Father with all his heart and he loves his neighbor as himself. And if the baptized faithful who have passed through death are alivein Christ, wouldn’t they do what Christ does? Wouldn’t they join the Son in bringing glory to the Father and interceding for man? In Revelation, John saw the saints in heaven offering to God the prayers of the saints on earth (5:8; cf. 6:9-10). The righteous in heaven can and do intercede for us, and “the prayer of a righteous man has great power in its effects” (Jas 5:16). (192)

Even after death, those who love Christ and are joined to Him are invested in the lives of others who are trying to make it home to heaven. They do not cease to love their fellow human beings; rather, loving their neighbors and looking to Christ for His help, they continue to work in the lives of those on earth according to the gifts God has given them.

Mary has been a huge help to me, and I have written about her increasing role in my life which has coincided (not coincidentally) with the great growth in my relationship with her Son, Jesus. Now, I can say that I have additionally found great comfort in the intercession of St. Joseph. Looking at this foster father, I see a man of great character who provides everything his family needs in very trying and desperate times. I see a man who offers protection in quite dangerous situations. This man is a provider and a protector. Our Father in heaven ordained that this man would be the father of His Son on earth, and He offered him supernatural grace to accomplish a most difficult task—to become the husband of a virgin mother and the father of a son wanted dead from the time he was born. And in the midst of poverty he made a way to provide for his family’s needs. Furthermore, St. Joseph actually taught Jesus, the very Son of God. He directed and guided him, even was an authority to Jesus as his earthly guardian.

“I know by experience that this glorious saint helps in all. For His Majesty wishes to teach us that, as He was Himself subject to him on earth – for having the title of father, though only his guardian, St Joseph could command him – so in heaven the Lord does what he asks” (47-8).

Saint teresa of ávila

So what does any of this about St. Joseph’s relationship to his family—the Virgin Mother and the Son of God—have to do with us? St. Teresa of Avila wrote of him in her autobiography, “I know by experience that this glorious saint helps in all. For His Majesty wishes to teach us that, as He was Himself subject to him on earth – for having the title of father, though only his guardian, St Joseph could command him – so in heaven the Lord does what he asks” (47-8). When I first read this statement by St. Teresa, I was struck by it and still this understanding of St. Joseph has stuck with me. Our Lord asks us to humble ourselves before God and our neighbors. We often think of Jesus humbling Himself by becoming a human being, but He even went so far as to humble himself in obedience to a human father, and continues in heaven to offer him such respect and love as to do the same in heaven. 

None of this is to say that we cannot ask our Father in heaven to provide what we need. Of course we ought to do this. We ask Him to do this often when we pray “give us this day our daily bread” as Jesus taught us. But even as we pray this, we tell our family and friends our needs, even asking for help. And God wills that we are provided for by the hands of our neighbors. So too, God ordains that we are provided for through the prayers and intercessions of Jesus’ own foster father who cares for us as he cared for his wife and son on earth. St. Joseph was a guardian, a provider, and a protector when he lived on earth, and so he remains today in heaven as he intercedes for us, going to his son asking in love that He grant us what we need. 

Such love God offers us! Not only does He provide us a superabundance of His own unending love, but he grants us a whole community of brothers and sisters in the saints in heaven—friends in the Church triumphant who love us and desire our good. He grants us so much more than we could ever imagine. Just when we think Jesus could not offer any more to us, still he offers us ever more by giving us His friends to be ours.

An Antidote to Our Troubled Times

“I saw the snares that the enemy spreads out over the world and I said groaning, ‘What can get through such snares?’ Then I heard a voice saying to me, ‘Humility.’” – St. Anthony the Great

While reading Saint Teresa of Avila’s autobiography I found her humility incredibly striking. Here is a piece of her advice to any person wishing to grow closer to Our Lord: “Let us endeavor always to look at the virtues and good qualities that we find in others, and to keep our own great sins before our eyes, so that we may see none of their failings” (92). Particularly in this time of quick judgments of others, each of us desperately need to take St. Teresa’s advice here. In this modern world where people constantly need affirmation, what we really need is humility and forgiveness. If pride is the root of sin, we must never stop seeking humility and ask God to grant us this gift. When evils assail us, we must approach everything with a humble heart, or we will quickly become what we hate. From a favorite collection of poems of mine, The Four QuartetsT. S. Eliot writes, “The only wisdom we can hope to acquire is the wisdom of humility: humility is endless.” Humility is the antidote to our times, and every era in history.

“Then turning toward the woman he said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I entered your house, you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment. Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much; but he who is forgiven little, loves little.” And he said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.” Then those who were at table with him began to say among themselves, “Who is this, who even forgives sins?” And he said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.” (Luke 7:44-50)

Luke 7:44-50 RSV-2CE

Our understanding of sin cannot remain abstract. Many Christians are quick to call themselves sinners, but too often it becomes an abstract knowledge. In our heads, we know we sin often, but if we are honest with ourselves, sometimes we do not know it in our hearts or we do not know from where it comes. It is easy to miss the failings, the big and especially the small, if one does not honestly examine oneself often. One very clear way to do this is to examine one’s conscience and go to confession often. Driven by love of God and desire for reconciliation with our Father, one can offer an honest confession, bringing one’s sins out of the dark where the devil shames and deceives, and into the light of truth before God to be forgiven. This is one way our Father brings a person close to Himself and under His care, not shaming her, but forgiving her and offering grace and encouragement to fight the good fight against sin, death, and the devil.

The problem is we are scared to look our sins in the face to see them for what they are—offenses against God, wounding our relationship with Him and our neighbors, and wounding our own souls. But if we do not see our great sins, how can we love God as we ought? Jesus says to the woman, a sinner, who anoints his feet with expensive perfume and washes his feet with her tears and hair, “Therefore, I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much; but he who is forgiven little, loves little” (Lk. 7:47). We want to identify with the woman in the story who loves much; however, without understanding the magnitude of the sins for which we are forgiven, we cannot approach God with true contrition. More often than not, I think many of us welcome Jesus into our homes, forgetting who He is and who we are before Him. We want Him to be with us, but without ourselves being seen as fools in need of great mercy. We fool ourselves into thinking we are actually good enough to have Jesus by our side, and all this because we fail to see the sins lurking our lives. We let the fear of seeing them keep us in a lukewarm faith. In reality, our sin ought to be enough to bring us to our knees before Jesus, offering Him all we have, kissing His feet and asking for mercy. If we do not see our great sin, how can we offer him great love?

The great thing about confession is we do not only confess our sins, but we are forgiven them. The Pharisees recognize this is no small thing. No one has the authority to forgive sins. Only God can do that. And Jesus, who is God, does do that when the woman comes to Him with a repentant heart. He tells her the truth and what she longs to hear: “Your sins are forgiven… Your faith has saved you; go in peace” (Lk. 7:50). Not only does she come to him in repentance, but she goes to Jesus knowing He can forgive Her sins. He does just that, and tells her to go in peace. In forgiveness, God offers us peace. It does us no good to despair over our sin, and we are deceived if we think dwelling obsessively over our sin makes us pious. God calls us out of our sin and offers us the grace to overcome it. One gift He, in His mercy and love, has offered us to aid in our fight against sin is confession. And when we mess up, we know His love is always waiting, beckoning us to receive His love and forgiveness again and again. 

After Jesus’ resurrection from the dead, He comes to the disciples and reveals Himself to them. In the Gospel of John, it is written, “Jesus said to them again, ‘Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, even so I send you.’ And when he had said this, he breathed on them, and said to them, ‘Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.’” (Jn. 20:21-23). When Jesus breathes on the Apostles, He ordains them to the priesthood, marking them with the gift of the Holy Spirit, giving them the special gift to forgive sins. As the apostolic mission of the Church continues, she ordains men to the priesthood, always passing on the gift of the mystery of the priesthood from bishop to new bishop, who consequently appoints new priests. The line of bishops goes all the way back to the Apostles themselves, and thus, to Christ Himself. As He wills it, He breathes on men and brings them into the priesthood, giving to them the gift of the forgiveness of sins in His stead. Souls are still healed in the very same way they were 2000 years ago. We can have confidence that God is doing His great work of healing in us that He began with His own Son. He offers us His very presence today, in the present. We get to go to a priest and ask for forgiveness as we would go to Jesus Himself. This is not abstract; this is not only in our heart, but this is real, as though we were literally talking to Him ourselves, and hearing Him speak forgiveness over our lives. What a beautiful, beautiful gift. 

Check out these resources on confession:

Fr. Mike Schmitz – Why Confess My Sins to a Priest?

Catholic Answers – Is Confession in Scripture?

Catholic Answers – How to Defend the Sacrament of Confession

Here is a prayer for humility.

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Being Woman, Called to Love, Bearing Life

All my life, I have had wonderful people around me who demonstrate good marriages, especially my own parents, for which I am incredibly grateful. I had older Christians in my life who helped form me, and thanks to all of these people and their wisdom, I knew marriage would be incredibly humbling. I knew marriage was not a fairy tale, and that my life with my husband could come with some painful times ahead. I knew that in marriage, we would be together in good times and in the bad, in sickness and in health, ‘til death do us part. I knew these things, and I was prepared to stick with my husband through whatever would come. But something I have learned since then is that marriage is more than simply sticking together; it is more than a commitment for life. And for this, I, along with so many others I know, was left without the understanding of something critical to the nature of marriage.

At its core, marriage is life-giving. It is a sign of the love of Christ for the Church, and inherent to that love is life. Parents give natural life through their love for one another, pointing to Christ and the Church, which, together give supernatural life through their love. The love Christ has for the Church gives supernatural life to those members who are reborn and brings more members, more daughters and sons of God, into the fold. So too, the marriage of a husband and wife ought to bear fruit by its love. Marriage is unique in that it is the one union that actually brings new life into existence. We get to be co-creators with God, offering to Him our love with which He creates new life.

Before I continue, I must be clear I am not saying, nor do I mean to suggest, that there is something morally wrong with a couple who deeply desires children and is open to life, but due to health problems, is barren. And, might I add, a couple with this disposition and yet without children is a testament to the fact that marriage naturally yields children, that there is something physically wrong when a husband and wife cannot have children. Spiritually and emotionally, this couple feels deeply that something profound is lacking, and it is a true cross they must bear. To say children are not inherent to marriage is a mockery to the husband and wife who are grieving their inability to bear children, for it says they only lack an accessory to their marriage. It diminishes their grief by diminishing the value of what they lack.

Can a couple really say they love one another spiritually and emotionally while simultaneously altering their bodies so their love might not bear fruit? There is profound dissonance with this suggestion. The couple says with their bodies, “Sure, I want you now, but we cannot let anyone come into existence who might be a lasting sign of our love.” Each person is used by the other for feelings of love, of desire, or of pleasure, but the act in which they partake is nothing more. The dignity of each person is not respected. Can a couple who contracepts really say they love one another wholly? They may say they love one another spiritually and emotionally, but if they alter their bodies or tell the other to alter her body so she might not bring forth life, there is something deeply disturbing going on here. Can love be whole when it is altered to be barren? Can love be whole when it does not allow for sacrifice?

Additionally, if love is Trinitarian in nature, and if marriage is a sign of the mystery of the love of the Trinity, then what are we showing when we do not let our love be expressed in all its fullness? If the union between husband and wife is like the union of the Father and the Son who give and receive love, and the Holy Spirit is the essence of the love between them, then when we alter our bodies in the very act that points to the Trinity, we do it in a way that shuts out the Holy Spirit who is the outpouring of the love of the Father and the Son, the one who works in us and makes us holy, the one who brings us Life and Truth, the one who makes us bearers of Life, Truth, and Love Himself. Can our love be whole when the very picture of the Trinity to which our love points is destroyed, unrecognizable?

When I was engaged, I read the book, Sheet Music, by Dr. Kevin Leman, as it was believed to be a good book on sex and marriage from a Christian perspective. I read much of the book while I was engaged, and looking back it is deeply troubling. For engaged couples, he advises that the woman see a doctor to get some form of contraception, and to “get to know her body” so she can better tell her husband how to please her. He even encourages the wife, when the husband is away on a business trip, for example, to send him messages reminding him what he gets to come home to. I vividly remember thinking to myself that I had better get ready for when I was married; I better get ready to give myself to my husband whenever and however he wanted me. And if I did not and my marriage was suffering, it may be that I simply am not putting in the effort to be sexy enough for my husband to keep him interested and to bring him home at the end of the day. Though I did not agree with much of what he said, the doctor who wrote this book certainly sent the overwhelming message that pleasurable sex, and a lot of it, is the pathway to a good marriage. I know the book was written with good intent, but it brought a lot of baggage into my marriage I otherwise would not have had, and I am deeply saddened that so many others may have been burdened with this man’s so-called “marriage counseling.”

To add to the problems with this book on marriage and sex, children were absent from the discussion. Out of this great lack, I was given the message that children can come eventually at whatever point the couple desires them, but ultimately, marriage is only for the enjoyment of husband and wife and to curb lust (although I would argue his understanding of sex only keeps a man lusting after his wife). According to this skewed view of marriage, contraception is the norm even for married couples, because, of course, sex is on-demand and children are only a choice. But if sex truly is good, then why must we block what comes from it? If children really are a blessing, and sex really is good, then it cannot be good to block what comes from sex—rather, the human being who comes into existence from the act. We cannot have sex without children. The two inherently come together. Therefore, we cannot have true love in marriage without openness to life.

Within the context of marriage, some may question what is wrong with desiring children in the future but using contraception to wait a few years. One could say this understanding still recognizes that children come from marriage. This may be true, but still the husband and wife are not honest with each other every time they come together in conjugal love. The body speaks a language of self-gift and donation, and to inhibit this bodily expression through contraception is to undermine the integral meaning of the act. The man and woman want sex without its fruit, and furthermore, they want sex with a woman whose body is changed to be like a man’s—a person without a womb, a person without the capacity to bear life inside of her. If she uses contraception, it is all on her to ensure that a child does not form inside of her, so she must actively do things to her body to ensure the part of her body that makes her a woman does not function. She is only desirable, or is at least more desirable, if she changes her body from working as it should so she is unable to bear life. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, the reality is the husband rejects his wife as a whole person, as she was created to be, and the wife rejects her own body, resenting it, saying the way she is created by God is not good. Together, they twist God’s sacred creation—the creation he called “good”—desiring a distorted creation over the gift God gives them in their very bodies, in their very being. This is a problem.

Contraception sends the message that women’s bodies are bad, because sex should be on demand and without consequence. But women’s bodies do not naturally allow for this. God did not create women’s bodies to be this way, and he did not create sex this way either. He created both to be fruitful, a beautiful sign of his love. He created both man and woman for the other, to be gifts to each other and to the world, and our bodies are an inherent part of that gift. To love fully with our hearts is not enough; we must love also with our bodies, or we are lying to ourselves. I recently listened to a podcast in which an analogy involving food and eating was used to aid our understanding as to why contraception is immoral: we eat for nutrition and for pleasure. We cannot separate the pleasure of eating food from the nutrition, or lack thereof, of the food we eat. Imagine there is a piece of cake that can be eaten. If a person is on a diet, she declines the cake. However, if she eats the cake and then throws it up, we acknowledge this person has an eating disorder. There is something profoundly wrong about eating something for the pleasure of it and then throwing it up so you do not have the contents of the cake. This goes for anything we eat. You cannot separate the pleasure of food from the nutrition of the food. It is all or nothing. It is the same with sex. By using contraception, we use sex for the pleasure and throw out that for which sex is made. This is a disorder of what God created, and we can see the sickness around us as a result of contracepted sex.

In 1968 when the use of contraception was becoming widespread and more church bodies were changing their stances on the morality contraception, Pope Paul VI spoke the truth about the inherent immorality of contraception, speaking prophetic words about its consequences, among one being that “a man who grows accustomed to the use of contraceptive methods may forget the reverence due to a woman, and, disregarding her physical and emotional equilibrium, reduce her to being a mere instrument for the satisfaction of his own desires, no longer considering her as his partner whom he should surround with care and affection” (17 Humanae Vitae). While much of this is clearly seen in the public sphere and in the #MeToo movement, this mentality has also unknowingly seeped into Christian bodies, making it possible for one to give advice like what I found in a “Christian” book on sex and marriage, one in which reverence for sex, marriage, women, and children is completely lost.

In many Christian bodies, it has become possible to separate mind from body, treating each as able to function separately from one another. People believe that as long as one’s mind and spirit is in the right place, what the body says does not matter—thus, many have changed their stances on abortion and gay marriage. But this all started with changing the belief on the morality of contraception, which destroyed people’s understanding of the reality that sex and babies go together. Fertility is a gift, and not something to be destroyed, as the destruction of fertility simultaneously destroys women’s bodies and the understanding of children as a gift.

Despite contraception being hailed as women’s freedom from bondage, contraception has actually destroyed women’s healthcare, for it is taught to doctors that any problem a woman has can be “fixed,” or rather covered up, with the pill. Instead of actually addressing serious problems, women are simply given a pill to mask the symptoms of a sickness, never addressing the sickness itself until things get out of hand, until a woman is left with crippling pain, indefinite infertility, miscarriages, and more. To reduce women’s healthcare to contraception is one of the worst things that has happened to women. We all know what it is like to feel unheard, misunderstood, and to leave frustrated, not understanding what is going on with our bodies. Thankfully, there is another way with Natural Family Planning (not the same thing as the Rhythm Method), which empowers women and helps us to understand the gift of our bodies, our fertility, and can even help diagnose problems that have real solutions. We do not have to suffer the way we have been told we must.

I grieve for the way womanhood has so seriously been attacked in every possible way. I am saddened at the ignorance of so many well-meaning people, especially of Christians, who have been so swayed by the culture in ways they are not even aware. Thinking about marriage and sex without contraception strikes a chord—I know, because I’ve been there. It strikes a chord because we have been told our whole lives that safe sex, responsible sex, married or not, is contraceptive sex.

When I first heard about Natural Family Planning, I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I never imagined that there was any other way in married and family life that didn’t involve contraception. I never knew just how deeply I had separated sex from one of its true purposes. This was initially revealed to me in the ways fellow students asked questions after a lecture that was given on the topic of Natural Family Planning at my university. Questions involving the risk of unplanned pregnancy within marriage was talked about akin to a car crash, like an accident or a sickness, and it didn’t even phase me. I firmly believed abortion was wrong my entire life, but there was another whole layer to the problem of which I never conceived. Could this artificial control that is commonly hailed as responsible actually be immoral?

I was face to face with the reality of this question as I faced marriage in the coming months, and my fiancé (now husband) and I agonized over this question and its very clear consequences for our marriage and future. Why had we never heard of this before? Why had we never heard anyone question contraception ever in our lives? Why had the use of contraception become so accepted and considered the responsible way for married Christian couples in such a short amount of time—a short 50 years from when it was almost universally condemned by Christians to widely accepted and actually encouraged? My husband and I felt cramped for time and alone in making a good decision, and in fear and frustration, we settled for the use of contraception until we were in a better financial situation, at least until we were out of school and then we would try Natural Family Planning, which we believed was genuinely the better way to go. This is a decision we deeply regret, as we now realize contraception robs any married couple, as it did us, of the fullness of truth in the most intimate act between a husband and wife.

I think it was when we were nearing six months of marriage that I continually felt this tug to look at A Theology of the Body by St. John Paul II. My husband read parts of it for a class when we were engaged, and it was something that had further spurred our conversation on the topic of contraception in marriage during our engagement. But, after trying to forget about it for the time being, I could no longer keep it out of my mind. I was sick of taking the pill, feeling as though I was some sort of slave to it. It was anything but freeing (as feminists and Christians alike say it is). It seemed as though the pill had become the modern day sacrifice for control. God offers us Himself, our True Bread, in the Eucharist to sustain us, His very Body. And it was like I was engaged in some mockery of that most precious Food, taking this pill every day as though it were my life and I would be lost without it. I was full of resentment for this thing and tired of my bondage to it.

As soon as I started reading A Theology of the Body, I knew I found the Truth. This was God’s plan for marriage and family, for man and woman, for sex and for children. My whole being was meant to be a gift to the other, every part of me! My body, which I thought was only a burden, was actually a true and most beautiful gift. God, through His unique creation of woman, made me to house life and bring life into the world. I was astounded by the beauty here, and overjoyed and full of wonder at what God had done and the life to which He calls husband and wife.

This is a beautiful calling, yet a hard one. Knowing contraception deliberately undermines the language our bodies speak as life-givers and bearers, my husband and I had some serious changes and sacrifices to make. Though we were still finishing our undergraduate degrees, we could not hold off on obeying God’s will for marriage. We knew it would be a possibility that I would become pregnant before I finished my undergraduate degree as I had not learned Natural Family Planning, and that would take some time. But we knew God would provide for whatever came, and we knew He called us to obedience to Him, no matter what that looked like.

I’ve heard it said that Natural Family Planning changes your heart, and it is totally true. You are always thinking about children and talking about children with your spouse and the beautiful responsibility God gives a husband and wife as co-creators with Him in creating new life. It is a sacrifice, but that is part of what makes it so beautiful. Sometimes the greatest sacrifices are also the greatest beauties in life. The cross is the cause of the greatest joy. So too is marriage a cross, and motherhood a cross, but they are the greatest joys. These crosses free us from the bondage of the world and call us to love more than we ever could on our own. God’s gift is a cross and simultaneously true life. It is in the cross that we become wholly ourselves, and thus it is in the whole gift of ourselves to others, even in our very bodies, that we become who we were meant to be, that we become free.

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